A Wedding Scene Not to Be Seen

How would you feel if you walked up to your wedding ceremony site the weekend of your wedding and instead of the luscious green grass and beautiful wooden gazebo with the calming background of the ocean you remembered now looked like this:

wedding ceremony disaster

Devastated? Yeah, that’s what the bride felt.

But let me back up.

 

Memorial Day is the unofficial start to summer– who knew we’d travel six states north to really get our first taste of summer. {Tip: buy new sunscreen every year. It definitely expires.}

For the last three years, the husband and I have spent Memorial Day weekend at a wedding. This year was no different, except that it landed us in a small town in Connecticut with not much more than a beachside resort, a rehab center, and two Dunkin Donuts.

After a full day of traveling, the husband, myself, and a group of friends finally made it to the site of the wedding.

friends traveling on plane

What we found waiting for us was a beautiful resort backing up to the ocean. {Ok, technically it was a sound. But I prefer saying I spent Memorial Day weekend at the ocean. It makes me feel all high class and fancy-like. If you use your imagination and superhero-like vision, you can almost make out the Hamptons across the sound.}

ocean resort getaway in connecticut

While we found a nice summer retreat, we also found a dismayed bride {and a not-a-care-in-the-world groom}.The resort hadn’t even given them the slightest indication that since they last saw the ceremony site, the construction for a giant suite of seaside villas had begun.

water's edge resort CT

With so many guests coming from out of town, some even there before the bride and groom, cancelling wasn’t an option, although 2 of the 4 brides of the weekend apparently did.

construction at wedding site

We did our best to distract and cheer up the bride by sitting outside on the resort patio listening to a band and catching up with each other before the big day.

live band playing at beach resort

dancing bride-to-beguitar player for live band

As more and more guests started pouring into town the next morning, the thoughts of the no longer picture perfect gazebo went out the window. Mostly.

The wedding must go on!

 

How are you celebrating Memorial Day?

Provisions Co

What’s the one thing you absolutely must do while at the beach? (Besides swim & play in the sand)

Eat seafood!!!

We set out to find some good, fresh, seafood tonight. But first we took a little tour of the island & surrounding areas. (Scoping out a place for next year maybe?!)

First we tracked down the Oak Island Lighthouse. My MIL loves lighthouses. She’s been to all but 2 in NC- this was one of the one’s she hadn’t been to yet.

oak island light house

Unfortunately it’s probably the ugliest one in the state. 😉

coast guard base

Not too far down the road we found a Coast Guard base! It would’ve been really neat to tour, but we weren’t there at the right time.

oak island coast guard base

Instead I stalker-ishly took pictures through the fence.

propeller

By this time we found ourselves in Southport, NC- a cute, historic-y town just north of where we were staying.

My FIL sure seemed to enjoy it…. Don’t Ask.

thor

Finally, we got to the restaurant we were looking for- the Yacht Basin Provision Company.

provisions company

Home of help-yourself-beer cases & seafood baskets.

chalkboard menufood counter

After ordering at the counter & telling them how many beers you’ve grabbed, you head outside to see this beautiful view.

seaside dock

Nothing like waterside dining 😉

provisions co view

It was so hot out, my beer instantly starting sweating as much as I was. Luckily the fans made a wonderful breeze. My Rolling Rock didn’t seem to notice the wind. 😉

rolling rock beer

I ordered a 1/4 lb of steamed shrimp. Imagine my dismay when this was set in front me.

Although absolutely wonderful, I obviously had no concept of what a pound of shrimp looked like…

steamed shrimp

I’ll consider this a “seafood teaser”- hopefully we’ll find some more later in the week!

Can you tell these two are siblings?

siblings

What’s your favorite thing to eat at the beach?!